{"id":69,"date":"2007-05-02T21:45:00","date_gmt":"2007-05-03T01:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/?p=69"},"modified":"2011-03-26T02:38:54","modified_gmt":"2011-03-26T06:38:54","slug":"finally","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/finally\/","title":{"rendered":"FINALLY"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"pagetext\">Most people that would bother reading this blog know that I&#8217;ve been having a hard time finding a decent church here.<\/p>\n<p><!--more I think I finally found one!--><\/p>\n<p class=\"pagetext\">I had been going to one for a while that I thought would work out, but it became apparent that there was a congenital lack of compassion in (at least) the pastor, especially towards non-Christians, and a person who doesn&#8217;t show compassion is not right with God (&#8220;they will know we are Christians by our love&#8221;).  That, along with some other very bizarre behavior, caused me to stop going there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"pagetext\">I&#8217;ve been searching for a local church ever since, but those around here tend to fall in to one of three categories:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Compromising &#8211; the congregation no longer hold to Biblical standards, doesn&#8217;t believe the Bible is inspired, have decided that God changes to suit &#8216;the times&#8217;, or just plain don&#8217;t have the guts to get rid of a pastor that falls in to one of those categories.\n<li>Legalistic (and not in a good way) &#8211; I will *never* understand people who think one hole in each ear is proper for a woman, while a hole anywhere else is evil.  It&#8217;s fine to have standards, but arbitrary and self-contradictory standards bug the crap out of me.\n<li>Dead &#8211; their doctrine might be fine, but the Spirit is not present.\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"pagetext\">But I think I might have finally found a new church, and as a bonus, it&#8217;s just a few minutes from here.  I noticed the building for the first time the other day, and asked some local people trying to find out service times (apparently I was too blind to see them ON THE SIGN lol).<\/p>\n<p class=\"pagetext\">After talking to one lady, she passed the word to someone and I actually got a call back from a deacon of the church.  After over a year of dealing with not-so-friendly and not-very-helpful people in the churches around here, I was surprised he even called me.  More surprisingly, he was very friendly, offered a lot of information up front, and welcomed more questions.  When he didn&#8217;t know the answer to a question, he admitted it and referred me to the pastor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"pagetext\">Unfortunately their service times are going to be hard for me &#8211; they only have Sunday morning and Wednesday Evening services &#8212; I have a hard time with mornings, and a family dinner I attend every other Wednesday.  So I had to wait a week to go, but I went tonight, and left content.  I think I&#8217;ve finally found a local church.<\/p>\n<p class=\"pagetext\">Now, time will tell of course, sometimes you don&#8217;t notice crazy until you&#8217;ve been around for a while (and this was a Wednesday night service, so a lot of regulars weren&#8217;t there), but by all appearances this church looks great.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>They gave me a copy of their belief statement right up front (and it&#8217;s all spot-on).\n<li>They&#8217;ve answered every question I&#8217;ve had so far, satisfactorily.\n<li>The pastor is very obviously Spirit-filled (YAY), well-educated, well-spoken, and not even slightly annoying.\n<li>No one at the church attacked me and invaded my personal space (hugs from complete strangers are not cool, especially when you jump over being touched by good friends)!!!<\/p>\n<li>They saw that I was hanging back in the service &#8212; were concerned enough to check on me &#8212; but then had the good sense to leave me alone.\n<li>Pretty much everyone came across as friendly, but not saccharin.\n<li>They&#8217;re outreach oriented, without compromising standards.\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"pagetext\">Hopefully this means that that next time I have company I&#8217;ll be able to take them to a church that doesn&#8217;t freak them out (Lindsey, lol)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people that would bother reading this blog know that I&#8217;ve been having a hard time finding a decent church here.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[252],"tags":[111,110],"class_list":["post-69","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-2","tag-church","tag-new"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=69"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":218,"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69\/revisions\/218"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=69"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=69"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tmbmt.MyCustomData.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=69"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}